Saturday, 16 December 2017

Why I Hate Christmas by the Golden Dominatrix

People tend not to give dungeon vouchers as presents

Everyone is with their families pretending to be vanilla

It is hard to find anyone to play with

All the sexy shops are closed

Deliveries of exciting things take forever

It is too cold to wear just a corset and boots

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Global Sales are up for Goddamn Media

Launching the global range is exciting and surprising as sales come from all corners of the globe.

Rolling out the port folio will take months but if you have a design in mind why not get in touch and I can speed things up.

Otherwise check out the Zazzle products and those on Redbuble as we target Australia and the USA.

I have a busy year ahead.

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Excerpt from The Great British Secret by Pasha du Valentine

'Prisons are like single sex boarding schools without prep. Ex prisoners have finely tuned their ability to use what resources they have, to make useful contacts for the future and to make money.
A man fresh out of jail is a man you should find a use for.'

from The Great British Secret by Pasha du Valentine
(c) Goddamn Media/Pasha du Valentine

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Menopause, Hysterectomy and Pain Management, the Golden Dominatrix Takes Bed Rest

I am awaiting a probable hysterectomy very soon after seeing those who are wise in these matters next week.
My fibroid, otherwise known as a tumour of the womb, has doubled in size probably because of a surge in estrogen during my peri-menopause.

I am not here to share the gory details (saving those for the documentary) but more to share some Countess advice.


Take everything they give you!

My pain threshold has been reached and my doctor has been elevated to godly status.

I am after all the Golden Dominatrix and used to giving pain not receiving it.

I can just about work still, at least from the boudoir and the sexy bed....though sex is on hold for a few weeks of course. The pain killers will see me though until surgery and beyond.

I can still type and think and therefore, I am!

And I am still exercising the whipping arm.

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Saturday Politics, just the one from the Countess of Brighton and Hackney

We are all one step away from being homeless, poor, sick....the measure 
of a society is how it treats such people.....

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The Countess awaits Surgery in the comfort of the Boudoir and practices the vagina clamp

I will find out on Wednesday when my surgery will be and have decided to enjoy the few months recuperating in extreme luxury. 

Pre op, I am fixating on serious pelvic floor exercises....100s in a day. It is easy to forget to do them so I leave notes around to remind me. Also the dreaded sit ups and leg raisers have become ritualistic. Very dull if I am honest. 

After this surgery I will have vagina muscles fit to fire ping pong balls at moving targets!
I may film it for my YouTube channel.

I have ordered Champagne from Fortnums and will be gorging on chocolate.....gluten free only of course. 

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Sexy Sin Songs with the Golden Dominatrix

Goddamn Radio brings you sexy sin songs every day chosen by Pasha du Valentine

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Friday, 15 December 2017

Finally a TV Chef worth Watching

For my readers enjoying a Friday night in. Thank me later x

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Notes on Drugs and the Art of Domination and Submission

I have always been a supporter of legalising drugs.

I won't go into the whys and wherefores now, suffice to say we all have a right to choose and I certainly don't think the government should tell me what to do with my body.

Of course in the sex industry drugs are fairly commonplace for many reasons.
Some sex workers have drug problems to maintain or find drugs get them through the job, if they are struggling with it for whatever reason.
Drink and drugs can excite, prolong and add dimension to sexual encounters.

Also drugs play a part in a lot of sex party environments. Cocaine is a traditional mainstay and more recently G and some other chem sex drugs are currently en vogue.
Sex on drugs can be exhilarating of course but when BDSM is involved it is quite another matter.

Drugs numb the body and they can cause damage with overdose or reactions but they may also impact on pleasure and pain levels in a negative rather than positive way.

Drugs can change blood flow too and alter perceptions of safety.
Risks may not be fully understood and results become unpredictable.

Drink and drugs loosen up the processes of sexual encounters but personally I would never perform as a dominant under the influence and likewise would not allow a client to be under the influence of anything mind altering during a session.

Safety should never be compromised, but also, the true process of power and submission requires an emotional and physical state so finely tuned and mutually reciprocated that nothing should hinder the attainment of complex goals. 

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